Tag Archives: boyfriend

getting stoned is good?

Posted on February 28, 2015 by janeisnotme

It’s been 24 years since I smoked pot every afternoon when I got home from work around 5:30. Didn’t smoke or drink those 24 years. Felt good. Felt comfortable as not a party girl, plus, um, I was too old … Continue reading →

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that’s just sweet talk… whaat??

Posted on February 3, 2015 by janeisnotme

Had a lovely visit with boyfriend. We’re both mid 50’s and have been very serious together for 5 months. He lived with me 6 weeks over the holidays. We were talking about … yep… furniture… and he said that saying … Continue reading →

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music sure helps

Posted on January 23, 2015 by janeisnotme

I’m 54 and I have a boyfriend… still feel like I’m saying “Hello, my name is janeisnotme and I’m an alcoholic”. Whaaat?! It’s a boyfriend! A partner. First partner man in my life since 2000 when my ex dumped me. … Continue reading →

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transition from single mom to gramma girlfriend

Posted on January 6, 2015 by janeisnotme

I like to think back and sum up and see patterns but I understand that some people don’t. I think maybe because I have no big career or other clear success, it helps me feel useful and worthy of being … Continue reading →

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out in the cold

Posted on January 5, 2015 by janeisnotme

Today it’s -10 f outside my house. Boyfriend jokes about leaving little 7 pound chiweenie dog outside for a nice long potty break, like a couple hours. Poor little doggie would become a dog-sicle. I love little chiweenie, but boyfriend … Continue reading →

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drunk boyfriend, fun?

Posted on December 31, 2014 by janeisnotme

Dear World that knows everything I don’t know because I’m a sheltered self centered princess: is it fun or not to be with drunk boyfriend? I mean, obviously it’s not fun sexually. That’s a given. Especially in the over 50’s … Continue reading →

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Less needing to rub it in

Posted on December 17, 2014 by janeisnotme

Generally, I’ve been a “rub it in” kind of person most of my life. I notice recently, age 54, I’ve kind of stopped. For example, Friend NoKids, has always been kind of a dickhead about anything kid related. And now … Continue reading →

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disloyal mom

Posted on December 13, 2014 by janeisnotme

I got up too early. I went to bed too early. I ate too much. I did too many chores. I made my body ache. I napped too long. I invited son and family over when I shouldn’t have. They … Continue reading →

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generous pretending

Posted on December 13, 2014 by janeisnotme

I have a boyfriend. I haven’t had one of those since 1983, that’s 31 years ago. I’m a girl. I have trouble leaving it all alone and letting it happen. I want to fidget, meddle, touch, change, dissect, analyze, figure … Continue reading →

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